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We have just updated our personals section. We attempted to move over all active members. If you cannot login then please register again in this section. We apologize for the inconvenience but the end result will be a much better site.
Ads that have not been used in over 6 months may be deleted. We will delete profiles which are incomplete, written without meaning, with erroneous information, false pictures or vulgar/hateful language. Please be real!
Ads with inappropriate photos may be deleted and you account suspended!
First login to your account. Click My Albums in the left navigation menu. If this is your first photo click Add Album. Give your album a name and description then click Submit.
Click Upload Photo on the right. Click the Photo Icon. Select the album you want to place the photo in from the drop-down menu. Browse to find the photo you wish to upload. Title and description are not required. Click Submit.
If your photo displays as a red X then your file has not been accepted by our system. Photos must be jpg or png formats. Please do not have more than 1 period in the file name. EX: me.me.jpg. This will not work! Login to your account. Then click My Settings in the Navigation Menu located on the left side of the page. Next click Privacy Settings. You can select to not receive newsletters or notifications here. After making your selections click Update at the bottom of the page. Some ISPs block email from OlderMenOnline as spam. If you do not receive your confirmation email in 1 hour, contact us with the username you created the profile with and email us from the email address you used. This will verify you own that email address. If you have not received our activation email be advised that you may not receive any email from our site including notifications, lost password, and other system emails. Please try using a different email address in your profile if this is the case.
Make sure you have entered your email address correctly with your profile. We receive many requests for activation because people typed their email address incorrectly when filling out the form. BE CAREFUL. All photos in the public gallery were submitted to us by site visitors. Most are anonymous. If a person wants to be contacted there will be information posted with the photo. No information - No contact! There are 2 pages on the site with video clips. The Multimedia page has some clips that are very good and are totally FREE. Several of these are previews to some very HOT mature men movies. If you like one and want more information please contact me. Some of the SWF files run choppy but that is how they were submitted to me. The other is the Downloads page. These clips are FREE but because of the large size of the clips, there is a small fee to access them to cover the cost of bandwidth. All of the clips here were submitted by site visitors. If you would like to submit a clip for premium access please use the upload form. If your clip is used you will be given free access. While viewing members profiles or reading or replying messages in your Mailbox you will have an option to add members to Block List. After you have added someone to your Block List you will not receive any notifications, cards or e-mails from this particular member unless you remove him or her from the Block List. This feature helps you limit your contacts with people you dont really like. You can send e-mail to users by clicking the button Send a message or Send a card on that persons profile or listing. Simply type in your message or select a card you wish to send and click the Send button. Changing personal information is extremely easy. If you would like to update the information about yourself that you submitted during registration, write a new heading and description for your profile as well as editing main criteria for your matches just go to the Update your profile option on My Settings page. There you can edit any part of your personal information; save it by clicking Submit button.
You can NOT change your username. If you must do this then you need to start a new profile. All information and photos from your previous profile will be lost. Yes. All member profiles, when they are originally created as well as when they are modified, must be approved by our webmasters. We reserve the right to refuse any profile or photograph that we feel is inappropriate for this site. Also, we ask that you do not put any personal information in your profile, including, but not limited to: your home address, a personal beeper, cell or telephone number, a real e-mail address or personal web address. Any offenders of this rule will be banned from the site.
You understand and agree that OlderMenOnline may review and delete any content, messages, OlderMenOnline Messenger messages, photos or profiles (collectively, "Content") that in the sole judgment of OlderMenOnline violate our Agreement or which might be offensive, illegal, or that might violate the rights, harm, or threaten the safety of Members.
ANY indication or implied reference to under age persons will be reported to authorities and you will be banned from our site. This includes text and /or photos. Our site has a no refund policy for the personals section and public photo gallery.
Unless there is an error in the operation of our premium downloads program, our system has a no refund policy after our services have been used, unless the goods are defective in some way. If you feel that our services have been defective in any way please contact us here, with your reasons for claiming a refund plus a copy of your user registration details and Transaction id Number or Payment invoice (without this we will be unable to help). The user registration details and invoice are sent to the user upon joining the premium section.
All refunds will be made within 30 days of the users application. If a refund is granted then this will be on a pro-rated basis for how long you have used the membership. A small administration charge will be deducted from the amount paid.
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1. New DVDs may be exchanged only for the exact same movie in the event of a technical problem.
2. Used DVDs may not be exchanged. All used DVDs are tested before being offered for sale.
3. NO REFUNDS allowed due to the nature of the product being sold. KNOW and UNDERSTAND exactly what you are buying before you make a purchase. If you would like additional information contact us before you buy. Be sure to vist the manufacturers website for additional information on any DVD or product.
We operate within the recommended standards and laws regarding National and International fair Trading. Our site works on a membership system as we must be able to keep data files that contain your profile information, photos, and other information such as your Hotlist. Guests are free to browse the profiles of featured members, but in order to respond to ads using our emailing services you must be registered with a valid e-mail address. You must also be a member in order to view the public gallery, create a Hotlist, use chat room, and e-mail service. Yes - For the safety and security of our members all ads are checked to verify authenticity. A valid e-mail address is required in order to become a member of this site - you will not be able to activate your account without one. All our services are confidential and your privacy is as much of a concern for us as it is for our members. However, we cannot do extensive background checks on members, and we expect you to understand that we cannot take responsibility for any damage caused to you by use of this site. Please use common sense and be careful about giving out personal information to people you meet.
We will delete profiles which are incomplete, written without meaning, with erroneous information, false pictures or vulgar/hateful language. If you see an ad of this nature please notify us using the Report Abuse link when viewing the ad.
Scammers are mostly MEN pretending to be seeking love. They will be writing you sweet e-mails saying how much in love they are and how much they want to meet you in real life.
NEVER EVER GIVE MONEY until you have known someone for a reasonable period. For further information on scamming we suggest you visit www.agencyscams.com. This site runs an excellent database of past and present Scammers, with good advice on what to avoid.
Be VERY cautious when giving out any personal information online. If it sounds too good to be true then it probably is a fake. The purpose of our site is to make it as easy as possible for you to contact people around the world by means most convenient to you. All contact that you make with other members is anonymous, whether you are using email or our chat systems. Here you will find a community of mature men and admirers who are using our site as a tool to make connections and to find romance, dates, friends, pen pals, activity partners and domestic partners. View and contact online members, or simply send them a message to contact to you when they are back online. Our accurate searching and interactive matching combined with a safe community environment create a secure place to hang out, have fun and meet other people.
My Story: I just thought I would share the story of why I am doing this site. I was with the same partner for the past 28 years. About 12 years ago he began to show signs of Parkinsons and Dementia. Every year he got worse until about 8 years ago he needed almost constant care. At that time I quit my fairly decent job to stay at home and care for him. The first 2 years were not so bad. He could still move around OK and just needed to be reminded of things. For the past 6 years he was basically unable to do anything for himself. He needed assistance with even the simplest of tasks. He went into the hospital 3 years ago and came out bed ridden. It was very difficult bringing him home and I essentially became his Personal Care Attendant. Otherwise, he would have gone into a nursing home and I could just not stand to see that happen.
It has been very difficult taking care of him 24/7 but it was truly a labor of love. He passed away exactly 2 weeks before Christmas 2006. He had seen and assisted with the work I had done on this site and was very entertained by it. It was a great release for both of us to be able to focus on building the site and was really our only escape from the daily routine. Care for the last 2 years meant sleeping no more than 2 or 3 hours at a time. He ended up at home with a trach tube and a feeding tube and required medication, repositioning or feeding every 2 hours throughout the day. No small task.
Even though he is now gone I continue this site in his memory and hope that it will continue for him. He was and will always be an inspiration to all he touched.
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